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    December 29

    学会忘记

              今天与一位聊天,聊的很伤感,也很悲惨,是好几年的事了,还回忆的很新鲜,让人回忆起不该回忆的往事。
              记得有一首老歌是这样写的“把你的手拍一拍,快点跟我来,把你的眼泪擦一擦,笑容露出来,每个人都会有不如意。。。成功就会来”。擦去泪水,露出笑意,忘记烦恼,走进生活,成功就会来到。
              每个人都希望岁月的流水,将烦恼冲去,可是要做一个无忧的香梦,就得忘记旧日的纠缠;要想有一段快乐的日子,就得忘记过去的烦恼和将临的忧虑;要想让生活充满温馨,就得忘记一切浮华和虚荣的蛭累,忘记所有的伪装,留下赤裸裸的、真实的自己。每个人都无法逃避生活,生活有时强迫你咽下自斟的苦酒,如果沉湎于痛苦和失意中,迷失在回忆和苦恼里,就如同自掘坟墓,往往连今天也失去了。
              其实学会忘记并不十分难,忘记烦恼,忘记嫉妒,忘记他人对你的欺骗和伤害。。。把一切看的淡一些,不要为一时的得失所羁绊。学会忘记,驱散阴霾,尽情地享受生活的乐趣、体味多彩人生。
              说实话,学会忘记,确实很艰难,有很多艰难困阻,但要让生活充满温馨,就要学会忘记,这样人的生命才会更多彩,生活才会更美丽。
                                          来自:天空飘舞的茶香
                                                     05-12-18-0-19。

    Comments (5)

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    汉上秦风 wrote:
    把一切看的淡一些,不要为一时的得失所羁绊。学会忘记,驱散阴霾,尽情地享受生活的乐趣、体味多彩人生。
    有了豁达超脱,心灵才会得到自由,人生才会走出自己的足迹,生命才会永恒的微笑。共勉。
    Dec. 31
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    当爱在靠近9 wrote:
    是的!人真的应该学会忘记,无论是甜蜜的还是痛苦的感情经历,对一个人来说都是一种成长!一种阅历!
    有些事是一生中不可避免的!
    许多的事情,总是在经历过以后才会懂得。一如感情,痛过了,才会懂得如何保护自己;傻过了,才会懂得适时的坚持与忘记的,在得到与失去中慢慢地认识自己。其实,生活并不需要这么些无谓的执著,没有什么就真的不能割舍。学会忘记,生活会更容易。
    Dec. 30
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    世界never尽头 wrote:
    遇见你需要运气爱上你却要多少勇气
    渺小的我只忠于自己人世间却容不下一段传奇
    有人说该忘了你我宁愿忘记了我无知
    失去了你讨好整个天地有什么值得了不起

    我不顾一切让世界停止也要换你一个坚持
    人生的结局不相聚就是分离也总算留下了相爱的痕迹

    有人说我该放弃要反悔比执迷还容易
    最难的是失去爱的能力在孤独里醉生梦死
    Dec. 30
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    落叶飘零 wrote:
    刻意地忘记
    往往是自欺欺人的
    无意地记起
    偏偏是刻骨铭心的
    ……
    昨日一切的主角是你
    今日种种的主角还是你
    再续明日故事,主角依旧是你
    Dec. 29
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    heshan75 wrote:
    是呀,活在当下。不过很难做到,唯有时间可以冲淡一切。只要别执著地纠缠,没有跨不过去的坎。理智可以保护自己免受伤害。
    Dec. 29

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